Oh the joys of 12-13 yr olds, and there drama!!! It wears me out, and what is even sadder it has always been there, & will always be there. What I find most interesting are oblivious parents to the cruelties thier own children are inflicting, and in todays society most parents want to be "friends" w/thier kids rather then a parent!! My daughter has a group of 6-7 (depending on who is bugging them) friends, and for the most part I truly love every one of them. They are talented and sweet, but there always seems to be one in all young girls growing up, that thrives to make many miserable, wether she prays on thier insecurities(due to her own), or wether she is just pure evil????hhhhmm "HYPATHETICALLY" speaking--
There is a girl in my daughters group of friends that seems "hell bent" on making thier lives miserable, & what is tricky is the girls have tried to exclude her because she is "evil", but she doesn't go away!!!!!!!!! When she is not there with them they all get along, they have fun,none of them have hurt feelings..The only time she does go away is if she can take a few w/her, particularly her obsession, of one of the girls. I think girls are so much easyier from ages birth-11, and then HOLY EVER LOVIN POO!!! The dang drama.
I have spoken to my daughter about "turn the other cheek", don't kiss up, but still be polite, and of course none of this matters after high school!!, But there comes a point when a few of us mothers are ready to knock this girl over the head with a frying pan, & ship her to the CONGO....but we refrain..How much crying & sadness & attacks on thier securitites do they have to endure?? The crazy thing is her mom knows & does nothing???That is excellent parenting right there.....She is particularly cruel to Kenya, & there are 3 of kenya's friends who r sick of it, but they r only 12 and chicken out when it comes time to standing up to the bully. On better note My FABULOUS FRIEND Nu-Nuh took this amazing picture of kenya & her friends, it is beautiful & I lovey it.
